JO: How did you come by the role of the wicked stepmother?
JN: We had an interesting audition process, going in as an ensemble, a family. We were asked to improv a couple of scenes, and there we were, five actors working together and giving each other moments to take "center stage." It was the first time I had auditioned with more than just one actor, before being cast in a film, and I was so impressed with the level of commitment and involvement, along with the timing and knowledge of where each character needed to venture in order to make the scene a journey. It was quite special. One really could see the scattered pieces of the puzzle come together to complete a picture.
JO: What interested you most about the role?
JN: I love to play someone who is a legend in her own mind. Quentin wrote a character who refuses to change. She cannot see beyond her own carefully applied mask. She's quite colorful, though, and therein lies the fun!
JO: Why do you think Sarah married Abraham (played by Raymond Ma) in the first place? Just for the money for her and her son? Does she really love Abraham and her stepsons?
JN: Sarah is not really capable of love. She needs the security Abraham provides, but is trapped in a passionless relationship. I can't give you a happy ending with Sarah. Some people cannot be healed, or helped. They cannot see beyond their own individual needs and they will not sublimate to anyone or anything. We all have someone like this in our lives. The trick is to find the empathy and the justification for this kind of character. The actor has to ask what are the conditions that gave rise to this kind of "evil". Usually, actors have an arsenal of weapons in this area to pull from.
JO: What was the most difficult thing about the role of Sarah for you?
JN: Well, nobody really seems to want Sarah. It is the first character I've played in which all the men in my life keep pushing me away. That can be very painful.
JO: How was it to work with Quentin?
JN: "Q" is an absolute delight. He was always good natured and dealt with adversity as part of the progress. I would just look at the gleam in his eyes and get excited about doing something adventurous. His sense of play really comes across and I think he is quite unique, with much depth to his soul.
JO: Any on-the-set anecdotes to share?
JN: The thing about actors is that when we're not working, we like to sleep. One of the rooms in the house was designated as the wardrobe/make up room and it had a king sized bed in it. At any one time, three or four of us would be crashed on the bed, sleeping when we weren’t needed. Sometimes I think the film was one big slumber party!
I absolutely adored all my sons. We went through a phase where we would all go dancing at gay bars, and I loved being part of this young, smart, fun group. Hmm, I think with the film out now, it's time to put the dancing shoes back on. See you at the Rave.
JO: I heard a couple of people saying (after the movie) how important a film it is. Any thoughts on that?
JN: I think Ethan Mao gives a voice to those who are not heard by the mainstream, and yet they are a vital part of our society. We need, as a community, to constantly embrace that which we are wary or afraid of, and allow boundaries to be dropped. Acceptance is a huge way of helping others see their role in society so that they can find their own contribution towards making the world a safer, saner place. It is love, surely, which enables us to overcome all obstacles.
READER -- A NOTE OF CAUTION BEFORE YOU PROCEED!
If you haven’t seen “Ethan Mao” yet, the following questions and answers discuss the film’s ending.
Question to Julia: There's a look you give your son before you walk out of the house to go to the bank. It was a shattering moment for me. Really! What was that look all about? Did you improvise it or was it a direction from Q? It helped me sympathize with Sarah for the first time, even though I hated the bitch thoroughly! For me, that look revealed a certain desperation and unraveling for Sarah, who already knew what she was going to do when she walked out of the door to go to the bank. What a ruthless, self-centered broad! You were great, Julia!
Julia: The look I give my son, Josh, before I leave, was a re-shoot, as the director and producer felt it was a much needed moment in that scene. Sarah needed to rescue her son from Ethan's growing influence, or the devastation of her life would be final. Without that final threat from Ethan, Sarah would have simply given him the necklace. Ironically, Sarah's actions, in my opinion, lead to positive results, but this was not her intention.
Question to both Julia and Quentin: What do you think happens at the end of the movie when Ethan and his boyfriend Remegio arm themselves and go out the door like Butch & Sundance?
Julia: I think Abraham (the father) does not press charges, but the whole process of getting the law involved changes the path that Ethan and Remegio are on. I think they start going to Abraham’s church ( the night time service) and are even able to forgive Sarah, as she is the catalyst for their change. Abraham helps the boys open a video store. Sarah starts working in the restaurant, and finds she really enjoys having a new domain to rule over. Abraham has problems keeping the restaurant staffed.
Quentin: Originally they were supposed to be shot, but I changed the ending and made it ambiguous because a friend said that their dying would invalidate everything they had gone through. Also, the dreamlike quality of the film also makes the ending more ambiguous. |